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Q: Several years ago our daughter-in-law severed all contact with us, and we've had little contact since with our son or her. We've asked them many times to tell us how we've wronged them so we can make amends and maintain relationship, but there has been no response. What can we do?

Jim: My heart goes out to you. It could have been something ...Read more

Q: I'm a single woman. I've been wondering if I should have a will and/or estate plan. Is this something I should be concerned about?

Jim: I'd say: it depends. Under most circumstances it's advisable for anyone to have a will, but the precise course of action you should follow will be determined by the specifics of your situation.

For instance...Read more

Q: My daughter is 12 years old. Looking back on my own teen years, I had a really rough time emotionally. As her mom, what can I do to help her through what I expect to be a challenging season in her life?

Jim: I'll highlight that I'm a dad who raised two boys -- but I understand. Our staff counselors emphasize the immense importance of a ...Read more

Q: My wife and I have been noticing significant differences regarding how we each interact with our children. She tends to emphasize the rules, I'm a little more easygoing. What's your preferred approach?

Jim: I think many moms and dads tend to be black-and-white in their parenting. Their approach is like a light switch -- all one way or all ...Read more

Q: I set a lot of goals for last year -- but I only managed to reach a couple of them. I'm really discouraged. Do you have any tips for motivation to keep going?

Jim: I'll offer a phrase to keep in mind when life gets tough -- just get to the next tree.

There's a military training school in Vermont that puts soldiers through incredibly ...Read more