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Ex-etiquette: Separation anxiety
Q: How do I know if my children are truly safe when they move between two homes -- and I rarely talk to their mom? What should I do if something feels "off"? What's good ex-etiquette?
A: This is one of the most common questions I hear from newly separated parents, and it makes perfect sense. When families reorganize, children begin living in ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Story of Fred gets a bit fuzzy
There were no witnesses, but all I said was, “Get Fred off the table and away from the food.” I thought it was a reasonable request, but from the look on her face I was out of line. Who knew a first-grader with beautiful hazel eyes nestled above cherub cheeks could shoot such a menacing look?
I was momentarily intimidated, but I also knew I...Read more
When life knocks you down, read these 6 powerful books for healing, hope and renewal
Life doesn’t hand out road maps for the hard stuff — illness, grief, loss or the quiet, sometimes overwhelming uncertainty that comes after survival. There’s no checklist, no perfect sequence of steps, no easy answers. But books? Books can meet us exactly where we are. They can hold us, challenge us and whisper the truths we need to hear ...Read more
Joy of the game: When losing feels like winning for Morgantown softball legends
In 1998 in Morgantown, West Virginia, a bar owner took over the sponsorship of a local adult softball team. Named Chico’s Bail Bonds after the sponsor of the hapless Bad News Bears little leaguers in the 1976 film of the same name, Chico’s Bondsmen are now immortalized in a new book.
"Sometimes Orange Is Almost Gold: Morgantown’s Misfits ...Read more
Connect With Children By Teaming Up With Them
Q: With a recent change in my job, I'm finally going to be able to spend more time with my family. My kids aren't used to having Dad home much. How can I build and keep up relational momentum with them?
Jim: One of most helpful building blocks to reinforce a strong relationship with our children involves discovering new interests and activities...Read more
We're Here, We're Annoyed and We're Not Gonna Take It Anymore
I'm forming a new political party.
No offense intended to the two major ones we already have, but they stink. OK, well, if I'm being honest, some offense was intended. Currently, we're at "invading Venezuela to distract attention from the Epstein files" levels of incompetence, so a bit of change seems warranted.
I'm going to call my party ...Read more
To stave off smartphones, parents answer the landline's call: 'I can't recommend it highly enough'
MINNEAPOLIS -- Teenagers are generally obsessed with their smartphones. So much so that Kristin Hatling’s family recently encountered a gaggle of them who had brought their screens into a resort’s hot tub.
“My daughter, who’s 11, was like, ‘Mom, all they’re doing is looking at their phones and, like, making kissy faces into them. ...Read more
Nike Plays Shrink to Today's Anxious Kids
Most of us would agree that the slogan "Just Do It" has served Nike pretty well. But this fall the company added a new slogan: "Why Do It?"
And the question is ... why'd they do it? Why did they start asking a deep, philosophical question instead the ol' kick in the pants?
I'm guessing it's because so many kids are "just doing" so very little ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Putting the children first
Q. Even though my divorce has been final for a year, I sometimes like to spend the day with my ex and the kids. Not taking the chance of her saying no, I put the children first and ask the kids how they would feel if I came along. They say it’s fine, so then I tell their mother that I’d like to come along, and the kids want me to. I can tell...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'NOW YOU SEE ME: NOW YOU DON'T'
Rated PG-13 for some strong language, violence and suggestive references.
What it’s about: The Horsemen, a group of high-stakes magicians, reunite with a new generation of aspiring magicians to pull off an international diamond heist.
The kid attractor factor: Kids might be drawn to the magic and illusions ...Read more
Lori Borgman: More than meets the eye to Thanksgiving
We look at paintings of that first Thanksgiving more than 400 years ago, with tables sagging under the weight of wild game, venison, waterfowl, lobster and mussels, corn, beans and pumpkins We often sigh and say, “Life was so simple back then.”
It was simple. Life was so simple that heat in homes came from logs crackling in a fireplace. ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: Putting the children first
Q. Even though my divorce has been final for a year, I sometimes like to spend the day with my ex and the kids. Not taking the chance of her saying no, I put the children first and ask the kids how they would feel if I came along. They say it’s fine, so then I tell their mother that I’d like to come along, and the kids want me to. I can tell...Read more
Everyday miracles abound in Victorya Wright’s 'God Storys'
From a remote Italian village where a chance reunion bridges generations, to a sunlit California beach where a stranger’s kindness sparks a lifelong bond, "God Storys" offers an awe-inspiring odyssey through moments that defy mere coincidence.
In this compilation of 30 true-life vignettes, Victorya Wright shares her personal encounters with ...Read more
Think bigger. Think greener. Think 'Ten Thousand Central Parks'
The story of Central Park stretches from its nineteenth-century origins — with an unlikely cast of colorful characters — to the experiences of some 42 million visitors each year, and no single book could encompass it. "Ten Thousand Central Parks: A Climate-Change Parable" nonetheless attempts the impossible. It seeks to uncover the layered ...Read more
Spouse Concerned About Conflict In Marriage
Q: I generally try to avoid conflict, especially with my spouse. But we still occasionally argue. That worries me; is it a sign that our relationship is struggling more than we know?
Jim: The presence of conflict doesn't necessarily mean a relationship is in dire straits. In fact, certain types of back-and-forth can actually be an indicator ...Read more
Fear the Stopped Clock of the American Electorate
I once met a man who claimed to make up his mind who he wanted in presidential elections only after stepping into the voting booth.
"Are you kidding me?" I asked, aghast.
How could anyone, I marveled, not know who they were planning to vote for? What were they waiting for, a message from beyond the grave?
"Yep," the guy said, kind of ...Read more
Family guide to new movie releases
'DIE MY LOVE'
Rated R for sexual content, graphic nudity, language, and some violent content.
What it’s about: A young mother experiences postpartum psychosis while living in a rural small town with her husband and baby.
The kid attractor factor: This is an intense and harrowing depiction of a mental health crisis, not any appeal for kids. ...Read more
Lori Borgman: Sweating buckets while married to a hottie
I married a hottie. He loves the heat and the sun.
When the summer sun is scorching and most people hide inside to keep from flash frying, he goes outside to do yard work.
I tend toward the cool side. Some like it hot, some like it cold, and for some mysterious reason they tend to marry one another.
Our favorite pastime is playing endless ...Read more
Ex-etiquette: No room for the kids?
Q. The kids’ dad has not set up the kids’ rooms in his apartment yet and it’s been 6 months. They are telling me they want to see their dad, but they are tired of sleeping on the floor. I think it’s finances. I don’t want them to stop seeing their dad, but I understand that they want a bed. What’s good ex-etiquette?
A. Most who ...Read more
The perfect murder has never sounded so good
Every nine years, the Game of Nines begins again. A cryptic letter arrives. A body turns up. And the killer dares the authorities to stop them before time runs out.
This is where "Game of Nines" by James Patterson and Max DiLallo sinks its hooks into listeners. It’s not just another serial killer story; it’s a psychological chess match ...Read more
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