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Asking Eric: Spouse wants to reconcile with husband’s estranged sister

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My husband has a rocky past with his family. He is close with one sister and doesn't enjoy being with the other ("Lisa"), especially since she started dating (now married) a guy that is very awkward and makes our family get-togethers much less fun.

Additionally, their mother "Betsy" has been cut out of our lives, but not Lisa's. ...Read more

A Hidden Fortune, a Broken Heart

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I'm a 66-year-old woman, married to my second husband for nearly 17 years. Like many couples, we've had our share of struggles -- serious enough that we were close to separating. Wanting to save our marriage, I asked him to attend counseling with me, and to his credit, he agreed. We've been doing much better since then and have ...Read more

Millennial Life: When the Universe Draws Circles

For the first story I ever had published in a paper, I was almost run over by a mail truck. I'll tell you, the driver was none too pleased by a faux reporter jumping in front of his hood for a quote. I don't blame him. But here I am, more than 20 years later, writing for the same paper.

But I should back up. I spent my first year in college at ...Read more

Asking Eric: Neighbors’ trash habits cause a ruckus

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: We live in big city where houses are very close together. My neighbors keep their trash bins in the driveway close to my front and side doors. They have three dogs, and the bin banging begins early, sometimes before seven in the morning.

My living room and kitchen are right next to their driveway, so I hear banging from trash lids ...Read more

Feeling Like a Third Wheel

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I've been dating a wonderful man for five years, and for the most part, our relationship is strong and loving. We don't live together, so we typically see each other just a couple of times a week, with more time together when we go on vacation. That time feels precious to me. But lately, I've found myself increasingly frustrated, ...Read more

Asking Eric: Husband’s old girlfriend keeps posting about him on social media

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: An old high school girlfriend of my husband's (more than 40 years) creates social media posts about him and tags him, including photos of him or of the two of them together. In my husband’s defense, he has always responded or reacted appropriately with only a short neutral comment or reaction.

On our shared desktop one day, I was ...Read more

Sisterhood on Shaky Ground

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I've been struggling with my relationship with my older sister for some time now. Unfortunately, I have little time to pursue counseling, and finding an available, competent therapist in my area is difficult.

My older sister hosts the annual holiday dinners, which I used to enjoy and even help out with. But over the last few years...Read more

Asking Eric: Partner is always rude to neighbors

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: My partner and I (35 years) are fortunate to have multiple residences. We have always “lived together apart.” It’s unconventional, but it works for us. My primary residence is in a large urban condominium building and his is rural in a small town. We’re always together on weekends (we alternate the destination) but apart ...Read more

Promises Made, Promises Broken

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My husband had a period of infidelity. He met a co-worker, and I was sick with mold poisoning. I wasn't giving him the attention I normally did. He said he found in her what I wasn't giving him. He told me about her but refused to stop seeing her, swearing they were only friends.

I tried to be friends with her only to find that ...Read more

Asking Eric: Aunt wants information about adopted niece’s birth mother

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: Twenty-six years ago, my mother worked with a married woman who was pregnant with her fourth child but couldn't afford to add another child to her family. My sister and husband had a son and wanted a daughter. My mom arranged for the two women to meet, and my sister adopted the baby.

For some reason, unbeknownst to the rest of the ...Read more

Caught Between Parents

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: My parents have been in a rocky marriage for as long as I can remember. I'm 16, and my brother is 20 and away at college. My dad has left and come back a few times, and now he's telling my mom again that he's done and wants her to move out. She's heartbroken, and it's really hard to watch. I've seen her cry more in the past few ...Read more

Single File: Matchmaking Conditions

Life Advice / Single File /

Listen up, because you never know when it will happen to you. Your dear friend lets you know she has just unearthed the most wonderful hunk mankind has ever created, and she knows for sure he's just right for you! You must meet him, she says, searching your eyes for a response.

That's the scenario -- could happen anytime -- for which I most ...Read more

Dreamstime/Dreamstime/TNS

Ask Dating Coach Erika: What do I do when his place is a pigsty?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

As always, dating can sometimes feel like a conglomeration of awkward situations, ones we have no idea how to deal with.

I stand by my advice that I give often: I don’t want you to be scared of talking to the very person you supposedly like so much. If they’re a true partner, it will feel like a safe landing place for your concerns and ...Read more

Dreamstime/TNS/TNS

Ask Anna: My partner won't sleep next to me anymore -- what should I do?

Life Advice / Dating Advice /

Dear Anna,

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years and recently moved in together. Everything was going great until we started sharing a bed regularly. He claims that my breathing keeps him awake at night — not snoring, just my normal breathing sounds. At first I thought he was joking, but he's completely serious.

He's started ...Read more

Asking Eric: After parents’ divorce, adult child picks sides

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I am a single, recent college graduate whose parents have just gone through a very nasty divorce. As much as I love them both, there is a "bad guy" in the whole situation, and it is clearly my mother. She is a successful doctor and was always the primary breadwinner for our family, while my dad has been a stay-at-home dad.

After my ...Read more

Reclaiming Independence in Marriage

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I've been married for 38 years, and over time I've realized that I've slowly lost a sense of who I am. My husband is a good man in many ways, but he's always the one who decides where we go, what we do and who we spend time with. If something doesn't interest him, it simply doesn't happen. I've gone along with it for years, but ...Read more

Asking Eric: Friends insist on inviting themselves over for pool parties

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I own a nice home with a pool. I have friends that often call me to ask me if I want to go lay out in the backyard or sometimes, they’ll just call and ask if they can come over to use the pool. My issue is when I have people over, I feel obligated to entertain. Even though I know I don’t need to feel obligated, and they don’t ...Read more

Bridging the Gap in Blended Families

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Annie: I remarried a few years ago after losing my first wife, and my current wife also lost her husband. We both came into the marriage with grown children, and while blending two families always comes with challenges, most of the relationships have settled well -- except for one.

My daughter seemed OK at first. She was polite and came ...Read more

Asking Eric: After husband gets sober, wife gets stuck in a funk

Life Advice / Asking Eric /

Dear Eric: I am a married man in my 60s and a recovering alcoholic. I have been sober for eight months. Prior to rehab I put my wonderful wife through hell for years. Not physically, but emotionally with my constant drunkenness. I am now in a great place, feeling and looking as good as ever, engaged and productive. Unfortunately, my wife is ...Read more

Honoring Our Fallen Heroes

Life Advice / Dear Annie /

Dear Readers: Memorial Day is often seen as the unofficial beginning of summer -- a long weekend filled with backyard barbecues, road trips and the smell of freshly cut grass. Stores run sales, families gather and children run barefoot through sprinklers. These moments of joy are part of what makes our country beautiful, but beneath the ...Read more

 

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