Would it be wrong to ask God to lead me to someone who understands my struggles with the basics of life?

on Dec 22, 2025

From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham

Q: Is it wrong to hire a professional mentor – someone to come alongside and help me through life? The journey is really rough, and I can’t navigate it alone. Would it be wrong to ask God to lead me to someone who understands my struggles with the basics of life? I’m learning the truth that “life is hard!” – P.M.

A: It’s important to know beyond a shadow of doubt that you belong to the Savior. If you do, you will want to spend time thinking of Him, talking to Him, and hearing from Him. Prayer and Bible reading are the Christian’s foundation of enjoying a relationship with God, and they strengthen the Christian’s faith and witness. God does come alongside those who follow Him. Often, He will put others in our pathway to encourage us and help us navigate the journey we are on, and perhaps such a person will become a prayer mentor, for it pleases the Lord for us to pray for and with one another.

The Bible declares that requests, prayers, intercession and thanksgiving be made for everyone, that we may live peaceful and quiet lives in all godliness and holiness, because it pleases God our Savior (see 1 Timothy 2:1-3).

There’s no substitute for a personal walk with God. This is how we deepen our relationship with Him. There’s no limit to God’s wisdom; there’s no limit to His power. And He blesses those who follow Him, receiving His mercy and love. He strengthens us to face temptations and doubts that Satan wants to throw in our pathway. It also enables Christians to help others as they struggle with questions about God and His ways, because He always does what is right.

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(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)