Life Advice
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Planning For Parents' Visit Causes Stress
DEAR HARRIETTE: My parents are coming to visit me for Christmas in New York City, and I really wanted to do something nice for them by booking an Airbnb or hotel so they could have their own space and be comfortable. I tried to plan everything myself to make the visit special, but I ended up waiting too long. Now the prices are sky-high -- ...Read more
Employee Struggles To Stay Awake At Work
DEAR HARRIETTE: I have been struggling with chronic fatigue for way too long. After the pandemic, I spent about four years working strictly from home. It had its pros and cons -- one of those cons being me struggling to maintain normal energy outside of my home. I guess I am no longer used to the hustle and bustle of commuting and being on high ...Read more
Couple Ponders Real Estate Investment
DEAR HARRIETTE: I live with my boyfriend. We rent an apartment together and split all of our expenses. I've been able to save up, and now I am interested in investing in real estate. I don't know what that means for me and my boyfriend, though. I mentioned my interest to him a few months back to see what he thinks, and he thinks real estate ...Read more
Daughters Make Mom Rethink Relationship With Husband
DEAR HARRIETTE: My adult daughters absolutely refuse to call or visit their father, and it's become a constant point of tension in our family. I'm still married to him, and while they love me, they make it clear they want nothing to do with him. They grew up watching me handle almost everything in the household all while working full time. ...Read more
Woman Stuck Between Safety And Emotional Attachment
DEAR HARRIETTE: I'm a 75-year-old woman who has lived in the same charming walk-up apartment in New York City for more than 40 years. This place has seen me through marriage, motherhood, widowhood and every season of my life. Recently, the three flights of stairs have become almost impossible for me to manage. My knees ache, I get winded easily ...Read more












